Melt Down

                                                                Melt Down

The challenge.

In The presence of someones melt down, Unexpected and dark. Like a bomb exploding all around you while they say this is not about you. Its me venting . If it was simply venting then the challenge would be to simply nod in all the right places.

 But when it is a complete dark and angry melt down, how do you live through it? As the bomb falls and all around is the dark matter flowing all over you what do you do? Once it is over and they have walked away you will still be standing under the dark and murky cloud that has burst from someone you know. 

Your sense of being and strength and power stripped from you for no reason you will be able to explain and if you are a female it will strike you differently, Because it will have struck straight to and through the heart, Now your bleeding out the pain left behind after that bleak moment a dreadful gift from one who can not handle life or emotions or work or those in their line of sight. 

The damage done seems irreparable. The need to weep, every small thing weep, Here is the one thing about weeping . Weep cry whenever the need is there where ever you may be or with whom. It helps the body to heal the mind to understand and the heart to forgive.

As a women you have been struck a blow that will take some time to recover from.

As a man you know you feel as though you have been hit, And the strength to keep from striking some one is enormous .

A melt down, is about language how it is used and how best to strike and where,It can be a quick event or a long and dreadful length of time. It will always be unexpected and will change the way you see the world and those in particular who have dropped  all that dark and dangerous  energy all over you.

If it is possible to know quickly the moment is coming or has begun, Turn and walk away slowly quietly, If caught in this moment if you have a spiritual strength to  bolster you then lean on that . Or simply if you can tune it out. Shut it down. look away.

Why have I put this up?? 

Because to be caught in a storm like this and it is a storm, It can if you let it incapacitate you

I have watched as a friend is coming to terms with unfounded anger that has been dropped from above  from someone they thought they new well , If it is possible to think of that one with trust again.

I know the heart is everything and the divine heart can be shared once again to recover us. We must first take care of our own heart. And then perhaps the divine  heart will reach out with care , Perhaps then another step to heal for both, But carefully with knowledge and wisdom.

Wisdom.

 I hope for that, for all those who have been in a storm of emotional blackmail, Wisdom,remember that this can feel as though you are in  mourning, 

Allow the silence of the mind to comfort you.

From My heart To Yours.

Drew-Sr M